On Friday the weather was rather special here. The sunshine changed the snowfall and vice versa :-)
So this is the result of my creativity in the office :-) 
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MAY SNOWMEN... :-)
@ 2009-05-25 – 18:56:25
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Flowers for my daughter!
@ 2009-05-11 – 15:43:19
My daughter celebrated her 20th birthday!
She is my best creative work!
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Good reading from DailyOm
@ 2009-04-29 – 04:06:52
April 28, 2009
A Question Of Balance
One-Sided Relationships
One of the most beautiful qualities of an intimate relationship is the give and take of energy that occurs between two people. In the best-case scenario, both people share the talking and listening, and the giving and receiving of support, equally. Occasionally, within any relationship, the balance shifts and one person needs to listen more, or give more. Generally, over a long period of time, even this exception will take on a balanced rhythm; we all go through times when we take more and times when we give more.
However, there are also relationships in which the balance has always felt one-sided. You may have a friend whom you like, but you have begun to notice that the conversation is always about their life and their problems and never about yours. You may also have a friend who seems to require an inordinate amount of support from you but who is unable or unwilling to give much in return. Over time, these relationships can be draining and unsatisfying. One option is simply to end the relationship, or let it fade out naturally. Another option is to communicate to your friend that you would like to create a more equal balance in which your concerns also get some airtime. They may be taken aback at first, but if they are able to hear you, your friendship will become that much more sincere. They may even thank you for revealing a pattern that is probably sabotaging more than one relationship in their life.
A third option is to simply accept the relationship as it is. There are many one-sided relationships that actually work. One example of this is a mentor relationship in which you are learning from someone. Another example is a relationship in which you are helping someone who is sick, disabled, or otherwise needy. In these instances, you can simply be grateful that you are able to help and be helped, trusting that the balance of give and take will even out in the big picture of your life.
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I always give more than take... tired of it...loosing a lot of power...
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Susan Boyle is the woman I am proud of !!!
@ 2009-04-19 – 05:41:58
This woman boiled my emotions today!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9lp0IWv8QZY
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jI2DxkrgpgQ
I am sitting before my lap top and crying...
Tears of delight and proud are running down my cheeks and I can't do anything to stop them...
Oh My God!!!
She is so great!
I am so much thankful for this gift today: to have a chance to know this woman!
And I am very much grateful to people who gave her a chance to boil the world and supported her talent! God bless them all!I remember how I stood on a big stage twice... the delighted audience applauded... but the concerts were over and I stayed alone with my talent and only my close people supported me... the other ones who liked what I did just exploited my talent for their own purposes...
They remember about me only when they need something I can do well... But none of them even phoned me when I spent a month in a hospital last spring.. They just waited for my return to start one more project... and one VIP even didn't ask me how I felt after the hospital and might be I needed help...God bless all talented people and the ones who are able to support them!
I WILL SURVIVE!
